-a maybe way to avoid ever having to marry
-it was about 1993 at night. I was lying in bed naked for some reason
-I basically always wear clothes in bed at night. So that might be connected
-I felt my throat
-I ran to the bathroom naked
-I passed my grandparents while they lay in bed but they didn't do anything
-I spat my tongue out of my mouth
-it just came out straight away. With no pain, blood etc
-then somehow I pressed it whole through the bathroom sink grate
-I did it easily. The whole tongue going through the gaps in the sink grate
-then straight away I had a new tongue in my mouth
-all of that with no difficulty
-Tongue sounds like Tauranga where I live
-maybe someone is saying if I have a spouse or partner I will choke on it when it happens again
-the tongue coming out of my mouth like a 'ring'
-and too the tongue going through the sink grate. Too like a ring
-it was all completely clear
-and really strange so maybe it means this